Be okay with who you are

Lately in my life I have realized and been told that apparently for some people I am not an easy person to handle. I am shy until I get to know someone, and like anyone else I have been through toils in my life that make me a person that is not very trusting and a person who keeps to myself until I feel like you are a person who I can trust and feel comfortable with. I was told by a person who is not very fond of me that they will be praying for me, and honestly that rubbed me the wrong way. Instead why don't you pray to God to change your heart towards me. All I am is myself and I am sorry you have a hard time accepting me. No one is perfect and you will not like every person you come across in your life, but it is also not your job to judge and have anger towards them. I feel like it is in Gods hands to judge them and what they do in their lives and not ours to say " hey there is something about you I don't like, so I am going to pray for you". What is that?! Instead have God change your heart not the heart of the person YOU have an issue with. Maybe the person you have an issue with isn't a bad person, you just have an insecurity, or jealousy about them. I wish our world were different and we could all get along, but we are definitely not living in a perfect society. We mainly need to think before we speak and think about our actions.